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Why it’s good to play hard to get

Should one play hard to get?

In this century?!Although, this still works regardless of race and culture and time, still there are men out there who now prefer a more straightforward conversation. It’s like: You-like-me?-I-like-you-let’-together!-Why- play-bull-with-me-when-you’re-also-attracted-to-me sort of thing.

So, have come up with a list of good thing about playing hard to get so that one might see:

1. It give you an air of mystery - Some men find it a challenge. You hold a man’s attention far longer since he wants to figure you out.

2. It means that you’re not cheap - You’re not easy to get, someone who’s an eager hop-in-the bed type. Most men never go beyond introductions. But, if they found a woman who’s easy to get, it is considered as safe since she’s not into a serious relationship, there are no complications and easy to drop. But if you play hardball, you give them the clear message that you’re not the playing-field type.

3. It gives you distance to better assess the situation - To know if it’s just a fling or not. You will not be led blindly, groping with him in the dark while he takes pleasure in it and eventually, left in the air hanging even before you’re aware of it.

4. It gains you respect from them - Men would think twice before taking advantage of you. But if they caught you off-guard and use that opportunity, you’ll never let them get away either.

Relationships nowadays could be easily formed regardless if they’re shallow or not - only through exchanging text messages and e-mails,chatting or just by hanging together with friends or strangers.

Good things still happen

I had no idea that my previous post would be featured in the front page. Really, it meant a lot. It boosted up my confidence. Work has been so stressing adding the new boss. On an update on her, she almost didn’t recognized me the first time she saw me and I was so relieved but then when someone spilled the high school where I went, she suddenly realized who I was, though she can’t remember which class I was in, which was a good thing.

Another good thing was I would not be mingling with her a lot as she is stationed a floor above me and I would be just seeing her on our weekly meetings. She hasn’t set goals yet and what I found off was that she didn’t asked what each of us are working on. I mean, if you’re the new boss you have to familiarize yourself with the tasks, right? But then, it was her first day so ok, I’ll give her a break.

But the feeling that I have done something wrong even though I haven’t came flashing back. I feel that my heartburns are attacking again. I don’t know if I’ll go to a cardiac arrest or it’s just because of the heartburns, but then at least, the Vox people are appreciating my thoughts. Thanks guys.